It can feel good to be right in life. So often in a relationship disagreements can arise and it is very tempting to desire that your opinion or approach is right and will be proven right. You may find yourself hoping that the other person will have their plans or approach fail so that your way will be proven right.
But if we truly love another, then that love will override that desire and instead we will look for harmony and hope for those things that are beneficial to both partners in the relationship.
The most notable comment and description of love comes from Paul’s first letter to the church in Corinth. The thirteenth chapter is called the “Love Chapter.” What does he say about love? What does love always do?
Any relationship is going to have its ups and downs, its times of complete happiness as well as those times of disagreement and dispute. Yet, in those low times, when two people may be at odds with one another, if there is love the bad times are easier to endure.
Even in times of disagreement and dispute, if there is love, then both people will not delight in the misfortunes of the other. Rather, those who love want what is best for the other and will join in the sorrow of their companion when evil exists or bad things happen. The delight of love is in the truth, in what is right. And in the truth we may find happiness.
Love also does many things. It always protects. Those who love another will want to keep the other from experiencing hurt and harm. They will want good things for the one loved.
Love always trusts. Those in love exist in the confidence that the one loved wants what is best for both of them and is as committed to the relationship as the other person.
Love always hopes and perseveres. Love is that driving force that keeps us optimistic, that works toward a happy outcome, and that compels us forward in anticipation of ultimate goodness, security and happiness. Love is that controlling emotion that secures a relationship of mutual goodness and care, seeking what is best and beneficial for those who are in love.
DAILY CHALLENGE: What can you do to live out what is described by Paul?
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